Happy Friday!
With all the madness going on currently, I completely forgot to share my spring bucket list last month… oops! Haha! Anyway, better late than never 😉 Read on for my spring 2021 bucket list and intentions!
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Cute Floral Dress | SPRING 2021 BUCKET LIST & INTENTIONS
Outfit Details
Chicwish Floral Dress c/o | Sequin Jewelry Initial Necklace c/o | Sequin Jewelry Pearl Sunglasses Chain c/o | Gorjana Rhinestone Bracelet c/o | Sunski Blush Sunglasses c/o | Everlane Heels (old – similar) | Review Australia Handbag (old – similar) | Pearl Headband
What I Accomplished from my Winter Bucket List
- Finish Unpacking – FINISHED!
- Organize the Office – DONE!
- Set Up My Closet Room – FINALLY!
- Go To the Snow – We went this past weekend!! We also stayed in aa cozy cabin!
- Create a 2021 Vision Board – I started it but this just reminded me that I need to finish it up lol – oops! In progress…
- Be More Consistent with Workouts – Just getting back into the swing of things!
- Take Some Time for Myself – I took a little break off of social media and YouTube and have been prioritizing self-care!
- Organize My Life – trying to do this every month so it doesn’t get to chaotic lol!
- Go Through My Closet Again – just finished! Now I’m going through again before I donate <3
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SPRING 2021 INTENTIONS
Prioritize Myself
This has been a running intention for well over a year now. Years ago, I would prioritize other people over myself. I put their needs ahead of my own and along the way, I sort of lost who I was. I didn’t feel like my needs were important but rather that the most important thing was helping others. Early in life, I was taught that this sort of behavior was selfish but along the way I’ve learned many, many valuable lessons that say otherwise. My kindness, expertise and willingness to always help has been taken advantage of more times than I can count. Many times, I found myself exhausted dealing with those that always wanted more from me while at the same time didn’t appreciate everything I had already given. It was only after this epiphany and the decline in my health that I realized just what I had done to myself by making the choice to prioritize others over myself. I have been working very hard over the past year to reverse this mindset and while some aren’t happy with the change, I am. I have learned how to say “no,” how to set boundaries, how to put my needs ahead of others without feeling selfish and how to help those that expect nothing and appreciate everything. While I have worked tremendously to prioritize myself internally, I’m ready to do it in other parts of my life including with my worth, my time, my self-esteem, my health and my mind. I’m also learning to be much more selective with who I spend my time with as well as the decisions I make moving forward. Looking back, I feel like I am in a completely different place than I was a year ago…. or even a month ago. And I’m so happy to finally see the progress because it has not been an easy road <3
Open Myself Up
This is a new intention and one that I have just started to work on. Many of my “issues” stem from other people. And this is not to put the blame on anyone in particular but it’s just an insight I have come to understand. I relied too much on what other people thought of me and I let that penetrate too deeply into my life. In the past, others have made me feel less than and like I wasn’t good enough – they have made me question my abilities, my confidence and who I was. I’ve been very hurt by family and friends and for a long time, that hurt dictated my life. When you don’t understand something and you don’t have closure around certain situations or behaviors, it can be difficult to let go. You’re constantly dissecting every little thing, wondering what YOU did wrong when in fact, it has nothing to do with you at all. It’s taken me a long time to understand it but sometimes there are just things you can’t fix and the longer you hold on to it, the longer it runs your life. And because I held onto the hurt for so long, I closed off my heart completely (in fact, this is something that the Shaman mentioned). I think I mentioned this before but over the past year, I took a break from other people. I had been hurt so badly that I just didn’t want to feel that again. I became numb and I kept other people at a distance. But now that I’ve had time to heal myself and let go of my past, I’m finally ready to let other people back into my heart again. However, this time I know better and I definitely won’t be making the same mistakes in the future.
Do More Things that Bring Me Joy
I have been a workaholic for way too long and looking back, I do feel like I missed out on a lot of things. Out of high school, working three more jobs was out of necessity and survival but along the way, I got used to working a million hours every week. It made me feel like I was being productive but to be honest, I feel like it actually had the opposite effect over time. Here’s the thing – I LOVE my job. I LOVE the business I have built. I look forward to getting up every day and since I do something that I’m so passionate about, I can work for hours on end without feeling like I’m doing any sort of work at all. Everyday is different and that’s what I love. But at the same time, working for myself can cause me to work too much and that’s not good either. There has to be some sort of balance because otherwise, I find myself getting burnt out which ends up being counterproductive. As much as I love working, I’ve realized that I NEED to have downtime. At first it was hard because I would constantly think about the things that I need to get done on my to do list. Taking time away would stress me out! But then I realized that like in my personal like, I needed to set boundaries in my professional life too which meant… scheduled work hours. This has worked out really well for me since I get overwhelmed easily and it’s helped me to focus on other things that I enjoy doing. I’ve realized that I miss doing certain things and I want to do more of them without feeling guilty. So this season and moving forward, I want to incorporate more of the things that bring me joy into my schedule – self-care, playing music, singing, reading, drawing, walking around the neighborhood, watching an old movie, sitting around doing NOTHING, etc.
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SPRING 2021 BUCKET LIST
- Meditate everyday
- Write in my gratitude journal everyday
- Decorate our patio / outdoor space
- Plant more flowers
- Finish up indoor decor projects (hanging pictures/mirror, painting wardrobe, etc)
- Go for a bike ride
- Workout consistently
- Do more self-care
- Go on a road trip
- Plan a trip
- Read a good book
- Watch classic movies that I haven’t seen
- Try a new lemonade or tea recipe
- Schedule time with friends (even if it’s over zoom)
- Work on new projects
- Go on a picnic
What’s on your spring 2021 bucket list?
xo
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Yes to bringing more joy into your life! I adore this dress and thanks for the link up!
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
Hehe!! Thanks so much Kathrine! Happy you enjoyed <3
Gorgeous dress!! I need to take some time off for self-care! It’s been awhile.
Jennifer
Curated By Jennifer
Thanks so much Jennifer! Absolutely! I’m trying to make it a habit 🙂
This is such a great post. I just love your outfit it looks stunning especially for the fun season. I hope your having a great weekend. 🙂
http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2021/03/5-ways-to-be-more-chic.html?m=1
Thanks so much Heather! I love it too!! It’s super cute. Hope you had a good one!
Love this post! You have inspired me to work on putting my bucket list on paper!
Rosemary
Thanks so much Rosemary! So glad to hear that <3 I love that this keeps me accoutable!
Oh I definitely need some fun in my life, actualy I need a life, a Covid free life! Who doesn’t right. Have a great weekend. Hope to see you on my Fancy Friday link up party.
HAHA!! Don’t we all lol! Just trying to enjoy the little things more 🙂 Definitely!! Hope you had a good one!
We all need fun times. Hope things pick up for us all very soon. Have a lovely weekend and thanks for hosting. Jacqui x
Yes we do 🙂 I hope so too! Hope you had a good one!
Prioritizing yourself and focusing on things that bring you joy is so important. It’s something I’m trying to work on as well. Thank you for the linkup!
Jill – Doused in Pink
I couldn’t agree more. I’m glad to hear that! I’ve been really trying to actively focus on those thins because iff I don’t, I tend to get too busy and forget.
Your spring bucket list of self care items is a good one, Lizzie! Loving your outfit here too!
I hope you are having a great week so far!
Amber
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Thanks so much Amber 🙂 I love it too!!! Have a great week!
Happy spring!! Hope you check a ton of your bucket list (also love that belted dress!)
Thanks so much Lee! Planning on it!
So many great ideas! I love the one about trying a new lemonade recipe… I can’t wait for the weather to warm up to do all the outdoorsy, spring-y things!
Miles of smiles,
Grace
gracefulrags.com
Thanks so much Grace! Oh gosh, I love trying out different lemonades! I usually mix them with different juices – POM is my favorite right now! I hope it warms up for you soon too!
I love this post! You have so many great ideas. Being intentional with goals and plans is so important. I also love to create vision boards. In fact I consider my Pinterest board to be one giant vision board! hehe! Happy Saturday!
Thanks so much lovely! I agree! This definitely helps keep me accountable. I’ve been working on my vision board for months lol!! but I guess there’s no time limit 🙂 I’m doing mine on pinterest too!!
Great list, Lizzie! And this dress is so beautiful. Your photos are stunning, too. I hope you have a lovely weekend!
Shelbee
http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com
Thanks so much Shelbee! Aww I appreciate it 🙂 I love how they turned out! Hope you had a good one!
First and foremost, I do need to comment on that dress because it’s absolutely, hands down my favorite piece I’ve seen on your blog recently! It’s gorgeous!!!! Also, I absolutely love the intentions you’re setting for yourself this spring. I really related to “do more things that bring me joy” because I’ve been having a tough time separating myself from my work lately and it’s become unhealthy. I’m beginning to work on a fixed schedule as well. Sounds like we have some similar goals in mind! I hope you have a wonderful, encouraging spring season!
Aahh Thanks so much Stephanie! Wow that is such a compliment! I love it too! It’s the cutest thing 🙂 I know exactly how you feel. It’s really hard when you love what you do but just like everything else, balance is super important. When we’re busy working all the time, life passes by and many times, we forget to just live. Being “in the moment” is hard for me as I’ve always been future focused so it’s something that I have to actively work on but it’s definitely helping to ground me and re-inspire when I’m feeling burnt out <3 Hope you can find a schedule that works well for you!! Wishing you the same!
Really enjoyed reading this post, it motivated me to also prioritize little things that bring health and joy into my life and heart. I absolutely love my work as a blogger like you do, though it can be all encompassing and stepping away for more little self care moments would further enhance my satisfaction in life. As for letting go of those that no longer serve, you are one of the most beautiful women I follow, inside and out! Look forward to your next successes.
Thanks so much Jaimie!! Aww yay! I’m so happy to hear that. It’s been a journey for sure 🙂 Absolutely! It can be hard because we love what we do! And I feel like I always have ideas bouncing around and I just want to act on them but I’m finding that taking a little time out, setting a schedule and prioritizing self care is helping a ton with balance. Awww thank you so much! That honestly SUCH a compliment! I’ve been stubborn with that, especially regarding people as I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings lol! But it’s been for the best 🙂 Likewise, my beautiful friend! <3
You did such a great job with all the things on your winter bucket list! And you have a lot great goals for spring!
Thanks so much Laura! Hope you have aa great week!!
Love your bucket list for Spring! I need to start reading again, im beginning The Nightingale. Planting flowers by the mailbox and we have edging and mulching to do. Your dress is so pretty! I love the shorter style and those pearl sunglasses holders.
Happy Sunday!
jess xx
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Thanks so much Jess! That sounds amazing! I’ve been doing a ton of gardening too 🙂 I love the dress and the pearl chain is perfect!! It’s so dreamy!
You look beautiful! I have so many to-dos on my list too x
Thanks so much Ash! Good luck <3
Such a great feeling to finally be unpacked! Will be moving in a couple of months and trying to unload as much as possible before then just so the unpacking process goes easier and quicker! xoxo, Sarah
It is! It took forever haha! Oh wow! Ours was super quick ( like a week) so no time so go through anything lol! I’m doing that little by little now, Good luck!
This is such a great bucket list! Prioritizing things that bring you joy will make a world of difference!
Thank you so much Jenna! It already is 🙂
A road trip sounds like a lot of fun! I’ve got the PCH on my list.
Absolutely! Oh my gosh, you’d love it! The coastline is stunning <3
your spring bucket list is so good! honestly write me down for 99% of these as well haha. love these pretty photos and completely obsessed with your handbag – it is gorgeous!
xo Laura Leigh
https://louellareese.com/
Aw Thank you so much Laura Leigh! Haha!! It’s a perfect match for this dress 🙂 I love the color and shape!
Such a good bucket list and I really love those goals for yourself. Prioritizing yourself can be so hard, but is so necessary! Such a good reminder for me, too!
Thanks so much Lindsay! Absolutely! This keeps me accountable lol!
I really love your dress! The prints and sleeves are gorgeous! I also really like this idea of setting your intentions and bucket. It’s a great way to set the tone of the season! Thanks for sharing!
Life is a Shoe
Thanks so much beauty! I love the print and sleeves too!! Definitely! And posting here keeps me accountable lol!
This outfit looks so elegant and stunning!! <3
xx Sara
https://thecliqueblog.com
Thanks so much Sara!
You are so stunning! Love your outfit! Secondly, I love that you set intentions and you have a bucket list! I think it’s so important that we take a moment to pause and think about what we have accomplished and also what we still want to do! 🙂 xo
Aw Thanks so much Jamaria! You’re too sweet! I think so too. It definitely helps on those off days and keeps me on track!