Happy Friday, friends!
I hope you’ve had an amazing week! I’m styling this pretty white dress today and talking about something that has been on my mind recently…
White Mini Dress Outfit Idea & Feeling Burnt Out
Outfit Details:
Dress: Free People c/o | Shoes: Nordstrom Rack (old – similar here and here)| Purse: Zara | Hat: Forever21 (old – similar here and here) | Necklace: Juicy Couture (old) | Cuffs | Ring
Feeling Overwhelmed & Burnt Out
I probably stared at my computer screen for a good 20 minutes before I started typing this. I have to be completely honest….I love to keep this blog positive and uplifting, but right now I am just so exhausted and need to be real with you guys. I am completely burned out and feel like I am in a creative block. I am tired mentally, physically and emotionally. I feel like I am 20 people in one and am constantly checking off my never-ending to do list. It is way too much for one person to handle so I’ve decided that I am going to take a week off from blogging.
The past few months have been really hard on me with things going on in my life outside the blog. It has left me torn, defeated and heartbroken. At the same time, as my blog has grown, I have felt more and more pressure to do everything and be everything. Never did I feel the need for comparison in the beginning and I have even written posts on this subject, but I have really been feeling so low lately. On top of that, I feel like I have been so busy keeping things running day to day that I haven’t had enough to time to implement the strategies I need for growth moving forward. I have so many things that I want to do with this, but finding the time to produce a game plan has been impossible.
In over two years of blogging, I have never taken an actual break. I was too afraid that if I did, I would lose all of my followers and readers and all of the time that I have put into building this community. With that being said, I have been feeling increasing overwhelmed for the past few months and think that I am just at the point to where I need to step back for a minute and breathe.
I had a complete mental breakdown a few days ago and that’s when it hit me. Things need to change. I need to really evaluate myself and where I envision this blog going. I still love blogging more than ever and I am so thankful to live my dream but at the same time, I feel that things have gotten redundant and stale when I had envisioned growth and excitement.
The fire that once burned so brightly has dimmed because I have taken on way too many things at once and it’s been weighing me down. I think that taking a few days off to clear my head will not only allow me a mental break, but will also allow me some time to brainstorm, refocus and come up with a strategic plan to make this blog even better for you. I think this is just the thing I need to get back to my old self.
I created a short 10 question anonymous survey to guide me with future changes for the blog. If you have a couple of minutes to spare, your honest feedback and answers would mean so much to me!
Thank you all so much for understanding the situation about me Feeling Burnt Out. I truly am thankful for your support and love you all so much! I will be back next Friday (hopefully sooner) 🙂
xo
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Link up time – yay! <3
A new very cute outfit 😉
https://4highheelsfans.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/the-french-touch/
So sorry that you are struggling. I have taken breaks for vacations and haven’t lost followers. I know you won’t for sure. Take the time you need to recharge my friend! Love this LWD.
http://www.kathrineeldridge.com
First of all, Liz, you look amazing as usual. Such a pretty dress. Second, I just completed the survey for you. Third, it is okay to feel overwhelmed. And it is good that you recognized it and decided to take a break. Our minds and bodies will start to let us know when we are exhausted physically and mentally. We need to listen and not ignore what our bodies tell us. So relax, recharge, and rejuvenate…but make sure to be guilt free during the process for the best results. Your loyal readers will still be here, I promise! Hang in there, you are fabulous!
Shelbee
http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com
Good for you! I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling so much. Being a blogger is so hard because there is so much pressure to keep doing things at all hours of the day, on top of whatever else we do in our “normal” life. Take this break. It’s OK! You (and probably your blog!) will be all the better for it after having some time and space to regroup and decompress!
Virginia
More to Mrs. E
I’m so sorry you’re going through this Liz! I think you always need to take a break at sometime…otherwise you go crazy!!
Just because you’re out for awhile doesn’t mean we don’t love you and will be back to welcome you with open arms!!
You have such talent and creativity, so don’t give up!
OXOX
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
Lizzie, Definitely, take a break, breathe, life is about balance. You have a fabulous blog! Everyone one must recharge. And none is going away.💞
I take blogging breaks all the time and it doesn’t affect my readership whatsoever. The most important thing is consistency. Do a separate blog post stating you’re on a blog break and the date you plan on returning. When bloggers do the opposite, and they are either very inconsistent in their posting, or they disappear for weeks, months on end, then reappear and say “I’m Back”, then disappear again…that’s what drives me crazy and I eventually stop following them. LOVE your outfit. The purse is so cute!
Just wrote up a post last night doing the same thing. 🙂 We all need our breaks, and since you are starting this full time you want to develop it the best you can! <3
Mary
https://www.themarycurator.com/
Lizzie, I can totally relate. Blogging, while rewarding and fun can be stressful to maintain when other things in life are happening. Take a breather, we will all still be here to support your wonderful blog. On a lighter note, this dress is beautiful, your bag is stunning and you are gorgeous!
xx, Elise
http://www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com
Thanks for the link up, and I hope the survey helps you. Hope you re-ignite your flame. xx Jacqui
http://www.mummabstylish.com
Thank you so much for taking that! It helped a lot!
That bag is the cutest! I love your feminine style 🙂
http://stopdropandvogue.com
Loved this post! It’s good to take a break if you feel you need one! This will be better and the best is yet to come!
I’m obsessed with that bag! What a beautiful and feminine look!
x
Missy
http://popofstyle.com
Oh I’m so glad to hear you’re going to take a much needed break. Blogging is definitely a labor of love that can wear you out.
You are so right! It’s definitely a labor of love lol!
That little white dress is so cute! And a break is so necessary every once in a while. Then you come back refreshed!
xo Jessica
http://www.whatsfordinneresq.com
Lizz, I am happy for you that you decided to take a week break, I think it will be great for you. Enjoy your time 🙂
https://mihabalan.com/2017/07/13/floral-dress-last-updates-bali/
I love that dress and necklace!
Sometimes breaks are seriously needed, not only to get refreshed but also for some new inspiration. Good luck with what you decide!
Megan
http://www.todayisthedaylifestyle.com
Thanks Megan! I am feeling so much better!
pink and white is such an awesome combination! I see your background is very common in your pictures including your post about purple ruffled top and trip recap. is that your house? If so, it’s the perfect background for #ootd posts and how convenient!
That little bag is too cute!
This is the cutest dress! I love wearing white in the summer.
The best way you have styled a LWD so far on the blog, ever. Plus that little white dress is gorgeous! Love love the purse. It is everything! Happy Shopping at Nordy’s babe!!
Looking beautiful, love the dress, and in combination with beige shoes it looks very nice xo
https://theninebyivana.blogspot.com/
That dress is great. You accessorized it really well!
You should take as much time as you need. Everyone deserves rest and recreation. (I love your ring, so dainty!)
love the dress!!! You look amazing, take all the time you need.
Thanks girlie! I appreciate it!
Loving this dress and this look. You look so cute and femenine. I love the bag too.
Beautiful dress and bag! 🙂
http://www.tipsyheelz.com
Wow babe! You look stunning! Such a pretty dress and I love that bag!
xoxo
Kristen
http://www.everychicway.com
You look fabulous, I love that dress and the bag is gorg.
Taking a break from it all is the best thing you can for yourself! Rejuvenate so you can again be creative and feel that inner force inside you. As always, thanks for the linkup!
Christine
http://www.bonchicstyle.com
Thanks Christine! I am definitely feeling much better!
looking gorgeous and classy white dress! its fine to take some rest, give yourself some space and be back with more motivation!
Ohh, Lizzie, I am so sorry to hear that. I am sending loads of positive energy your way and look forward to see you in one week.
Big hugs,
Miri
http://currentlywearing.com
your white dress is so cute, I love it with that bag
xo
http://www.laurajaneatelier.com
This is such a beautiful LWD, and I love your bag! Taking time off is so important. It’s so easy to get burned out as a blogger, and we need breaks just like everyone else. Can’t wait to see your content in a week!
Rachael http://www.threadsforthomasblog.com
Oh my gosh you look amazing!!! I love that dress on you
I understand because I took a break from blogging because I felt things were just overwhelming. I hope you enjoy your time off!
I love all of your pics ! So perf!
Aww!! I totally understand how you’re feeling. There have been times over my blogging career that I’ve really needed to take a step back for personal reasons. It’s so important to take care of yourself! It’s great that you’re so honest. 🙂 Wish you the best!!
swooning for the white and pink combo!
Thanks girl!
What an adorable little white dress! I absolutely love it!
I think it’s great to take some time off and recharge the batteries. I can totally relate to, thats why it’s good to unplug from social media. Hope this weekend is filled with lots love and laughter. But the way you look so pretty in white. Chic and classic!
xo, jackie
stylemydream.com
Take all the break you need Liz! I think it would be better for you. By the way, I wouldn’t be able to tell you’re going through that much pressure as you look amazing in this look!
Jessica | notjessfashion.com
I love this dress! And you styled it so cute, I wish I could pull off a cute hate like you can!!
Perfect white dress for the summer! such a cute bag x
http://sweatshirtsanddresses.com/we-have-some-exciting-news
loveeeee that LWD! you look gorgeous girl
you look so gorgeous! I have that bag too and I love it!
http://www.prettyinleather.net
Hi Lizzie! You have done such an amazing job in just TWO years! I am so proud of you!!! Definitely take that needed break. You have earned it! Love ya!
xo Debbie | http://www.tothineownstylebetrue.com
What a cute dress! And I love that bag!!
Aw I loved reading this post so much. Thanks for being so honest and writing this. Do what’s best for you and everyone will understand. By the way – you look so adorable as always! 🙂
Thank you for being honest! It’s so important to take a break especially when you are feeling down. I’ve had to take a break before and came back more inspired.
Girl you look amazing in this dress. And I totally know what you mean about not wanting to take a break because you fear loosing followers. But trust me, the followers that matter will stick around. Taking a break, refreshing your mind and creativity is always needed.
xo, Lily
Beauty With Lily
Omg I need that purse in my life! Love how you styled this look babe!
xo, Roselyn
http://www.thestylelynnlife.com
That bag is gorgeous!! What a fun summer piece!
Thanks Ashley!
I definitely agree! There is always something that needs to get done and bloggers wear many, many hats. Thank you so much girlie!
Aw thank you Merel! I’m feeling much better 🙂